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    Keep an extra watchful eye because your toddler is now turning into an active, independent little person who will often want to do things his/ her way.
     
    What your child might do:
     
     

    Physically and mentally
    • Brushes teeth (but still needs help)
    • Feeds him/herself (but still needs help)
    • Plays easily with smaller toys e.g. stacks small blocks more neatly
    • Sorts toys into similar groups
    • Walks, hops and runs proficiently
    • Throws ball more confidently


    Language and emotions
    • Asks to do things him/ herself
    • Names major body parts e.g. head, eyes, nose
    • Constructs two-word sentences
    • Prone to temper-tantrums and upsets as the world at large still seems a little strange
    • Expresses discomfort with wet diaper
    • Knows words for urine and bowel movements e.g. “wee-wee” or “poo-poo”


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    When your toddler is around two years old, at this stage he/she is able to enjoy a diet that is very close to that of the rest of the family.


    Of course, he/she may still have strong opinions on what he/she will and will not eat. And it’s not always easy to make mealtimes fun while providing him/her with a balanced diet for higher level of activity.

    Even growth slows down in the 2nd year, bones, muscles and brains are still developing, so good nutritional foundation is important. Iron-fortified milks or cereals can be a good complement to regular meals. Calcium and vitamins D continue to be very important for healthy bones development.

    If you are concerned about your child’s appetite, keep a record of everything your little one eats each day. Think about portion size and quantities for regular meals and snack occasions.

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    Sleep
    At this age, children sleep for about 12 to 14 hours a day, usually taking only one afternoon nap.


    Ideal toys for this age
    • Stacking and sorting toys
    • Role-play toys e.g. toy kitchen, doll house, tool bench
    • Plush toys
    • Basic counting, alphabet and shape-matching toys


    Useful tips
    Your child is becoming increasingly mobile and independent. This is a perfect time to get your parents or in-laws to help while you have a well-deserved date with your partner!
     
    Many children are fully toilet trained by this age. However, if your child is late or has frequent accidents, don’t worry. Provide lots of encouragement and positive reinforcement and he/ she will soon be free of the diaper for good.
     
    What your child might do:
     
     

    Physically and mentally
    • Has an active imagination
    • Dresses him/ herself (may still need help with buttons and zips)
    • Has better hand-eye coordination, e.g. able to play with more intricate snap-together toys
    • Descends stairs a step at a time
    • Knows what is safe and what is not


    Language and emotions
    • Understands words like under, over, above
    • Makes simple sentences
    • Imitates favourite people
    • Follows simple instructions
    • Recalls what to do and when to do it
    • Plays good-naturedly with other children (may still refuse to share)


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    Don't give up on new foods. Giving your tot a variety of nutritious foods will help expand his/her tastes and promote growth and development.


    Serve a rainbow of fruits & vegetables. Feeding your toddler a variety of colours throughout the day means a variety of nutrients in his/her tummy—and helps ensure he/she gets his/her daily 5 servings of fruit & veggies.

    Help your toddler refuel. Toddlers should eat about seven times a day. Snacks are small meals—and an opportunity to promote good nutrition.

    Watch for your toddler's fullness cues. Toddlers are good at knowing when they're full so don't be concerned if he/she starts deciding when a meal is over.

    Why train your baby to enjoy family mealtimes?

    • To make mealtimes special for the whole family

    • To encourage your baby to follow your good habits

    • To avoid eating becoming a fight between parent and baby

    How?

    • Try to stick to set mealtimes and enjoy these times yourself.

    • Vary the menus and make food presentation fun and appetizing.

    • Choose a cooking style that keeps food as close to its original taste as possible

    • Encourage your baby to like vegetables by combining them with something else, like pasta, noodles or corn.

    • Adapt the portions of different types of food to cater to your baby’s liking

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    Sleep
    At this age, children sleep for about 12 to 14 hours a day, usually taking only one afternoon nap.


    Ideal toys for this age
    • Play dough
    • Sporty toys, e.g. toy golf sets, toy basketball hoop and ball
    • Jigsaw puzzles (8-piece or less)
    • Simple remote-control toys


    Useful tips
    Make your child your little helper by giving him/ her small tasks like arranging his/ her own table setting, putting away toys etc. Doing this now will encourage good habits for a lifetime.